Letting go of the EX

Lately, it seems as if everyone around me has been struggling to let go of their feelings for their ex partners. I'm not saying that eliminating feelings happens overnight but it's a process that we all have to go through in life sometimes it may bring us pain ,or even a sense of relief once we are past that phase we start to feel a ease. Now, I like to keep personal names out of my blogs so the names are completely fictional. Unless, I am blogging about a celebrity. Scott has been broken up with his girlfriend of four years for about one year. There is still so much pain there as you look into his eyes. When you spend that much time with someone ,typically there is talks about marriage and children. When that comes to a halt it is often hard to let go. These ex partners may live with you, meet your family and even open a joint bank account. I see the pain on his face as he tells me how it hurt his very soul almost. My other friend Emily , just got out of a long distance relationship of two years now that's for a whole not blog. That long distance issue. However, there are still so many scars left considering not only the emotional strain but the financial strain as well. She had many hopes of moving over there. I've had my share too, and it took about one year to get everything out of me , let me tell you that it feels completely liberating , when that pain has left your heart. Going through a break up a million people can tell you that things will get better and you'll be okay. However during the time it feels like your world has ended or on the flip side it's only the beginning of something better in store. Societal pressures to find a mate are completely different than they used to be however we are all only human and still long for that affection. Honestly, if you're going through a rough patch right now . Remember, cherish the good times but remember what wrong in the first place. If something is meant to be it will happen. I'm a strong believer in that , it took hundreds of tears and a bunch of inner strength to overcome the pain but it'll come in time. There are things in life that we cannot change such as the past, however we can change our current state of mind for the better. If you have any comments, tips, suggestions by all means feel free. Remember everything remains strictly confidential.