Overstepping my boundaries

For as long as I can remember , I've grown up in a family of germaphobes. Not sure why or where it came from but its partially already come into my generation already. I guess being neat doesn't always come easy always being busy and all stressed in today's society. I love folding and organising those are the two things that I do.Sometimes it'll lag for a day or two , but as soon as it gets outta hand , I cannot function. This weekend I over stepped my boundaries and felt awful. I recently started a relationship with the same man that I blogged about and folded and put away some of his clothes. Let's just say he wasn't too pleased. At first I was offended , typically Scorpios do get offended quite easily. But then after , I thought about it and said I wouldn't want anyone to go through my things either , like my personal effects and realised that I was in fact wrong for going through his personal clothing items especially somewhere that is not a place of my own. So some advice ladies is definitely see where your man's comfort level is with you before you do certain things. There was no argument or awkwardness even. That's what I enjoy so far, there are no major blow ups . It was just one of those things where I felt weird by myself and I realised that there are certain habits and things you just keep to yourself and you don't do to others. I guess it's just habit but sometimes it can irritate others and they may feel that you are invading their space, or maybe even offending them. So pace yourself and thread lightly. Keep your  obsessions for your space and your home. This goes out to guys too, everyone has their own way of organising and doing things. There may even be a special time and special person that does things. While you may feel like your way is helping it can manifest in a way that might be disrupting their aura or they might not  know where to look for things when they need it. I don't know I had a mental slip up and remembered that I am only a girlfriend and those things are better left for him to tend too in his own home.  Sometimes we often get all comfortable and wanna rush things, I need to learn to pace myself and let things progress naturally and slowly. What might feel natural to me , might not to others so I am definitely evolving  too .


Any comments, tips , suggestions ?